chapter 3
A little bit of ASL
A few American Sign Language signs you can pull out today. ASL is a full language with its own grammar — these are conversation-starters, not a course. Watch a video and practice with a friend before the event.
First things first
the most important one
"I don't know sign language. Can we write or type?"
If a Deaf person signs to you and you don't sign back, that's okay. Don't panic, don't walk away. Here's what to do:
- Shake your head gently and point to your ear, then your mouth, while shrugging. This communicates "I don't hear/speak sign."
- Mime typing or writing (fingers on an invisible keyboard, or a writing motion) and raise your eyebrows like a question.
- Pull out your phone and open the Notes app or a chat. Pass it back and forth, or use live transcription (iPhone: Live Captions; Android: Live Transcribe).
- Smile. Patience and good humor go a long way.
Bonus sign to learn: "SORRY, NO SIGN" — make the SORRY sign (fist rubbing your chest in a circle), then shake your head and wave your hand near your mouth.

Ten signs to know
Illustrations follow the standard ASL-dictionary style (line drawing + red motion arrows). They're a memory aid, not a substitute for watching a Deaf signer. Confirm every sign on signingsavvy before you use it.
Show all signs as: currently drawing
All signs are showing line drawings.

Sign 1: Hello
Open flat hand at your forehead, like a casual salute, then move it outward.

Sign 2: Thank you
Flat hand touches your chin, then moves forward toward the person — like blowing a kiss of gratitude.

Sign 3: Please
Flat hand on your chest, circle it a few times.

Sign 4: Sorry
Make a fist, rub it in a small circle over your chest.
Same sign means 'I'm sorry' or 'excuse me'.

Sign 5: Yes
Make a fist and nod it up and down — like a head nodding.

Sign 6: No
Index + middle finger tap your thumb closed, once.

Sign 7: Name
Two fingers (index + middle) of each hand tap together in an X, twice.

Sign 8: Nice to meet you
"Nice": flat hand slides across your other flat palm. "Meet": two upright index fingers come together. "You": point.

Sign 9: Help
Thumb-up fist resting on flat palm, lift both together.

Sign 10: Bathroom
Make the letter T (thumb between index and middle), shake it side to side.
Watch demonstrations on signingsavvy — excellent free resources.
Fingerspelling
The ASL alphabet lets you spell out names, technical words, and anything you don't yet know the sign for. Print a chart and tape it to your laptop — Lifeprint's printable chart is a great one.
- Hold your hand up at shoulder height, palm facing the person.
- Pause briefly between letters; longer pauses between words.
- Don't worry about speed — clarity beats speed every time.

Hold at shoulder height, palm out.
The alphabet, A to Z
Scroll horizontally to see each letter. J and Z include a red motion arrow because they're the only two letters that move.
Quick etiquette while signing or watching
Get attention politely
Wave in their visual field, tap a shoulder, or flick a light. Don't throw anything.
Keep your hands & face visible
Don't sign while chewing, behind a laptop, or in a dim corner. Facial expression is grammar.
ASL ≠ English
ASL has its own word order, idioms, and culture. It is not "English on the hands."
Sign languages vary
ASL is American. BSL (Britain), Auslan, LSF, and many more exist. Even fingerspelling differs.


























